So you’ve gone through many relationships and now you’re single. You’ve wasted enough time with the wrong kind of girls and the ones that are just outright nasty – girls who are only after your money, using you, or the worst kind – cheating on you with every other guy she meets.

It’s about time you finally get the type of woman you’ve always wanted. But how do you do that?

Keep reading to find out…

1. Make Her Come To Life

This doesn’t mean you go and find yourself a corpse of a woman and make her come to life with a lightning bolt ala Frankenstein.  It’s about the law of attraction and visualization.

Make the woman of your dreams come to life by WRITING IT DOWN.

Do you want a girl who likes yoga?  Someone who loves to cook? A girl with a Master’s degree? Someone who loves to sing along to Barry Manilow just like you do?

Be specific about the woman you want you to be with.

By specific, it means every single detail about her. The color of her hair, her eyes, her skin tone, how she smells, how she smiles, how she eats, what music she listens to, where she grew up in – just about everything. Close your eyes, imagine what she looks like and who she is, and write down every single thing that you imagine.

And when you do create this woman, find her by being her.

Huh?  What does that mean?  Let me explain…

The best way to find this girl is by acting like a spy. Now before you go stalking some girl at the supermarket, let me clarify.

Spies tend to embody their targets so they can predict their behavior and movements. Embody the woman of your dreams so you can find her. If you want a girl who loves metal bands, go to metal rock concerts; if you want someone who loves to cook, attend a cooking class; if you want a girl who’s into the arts, attend gallery openings.

To get the woman of your dreams, you have to embrace her world. And when you do, she will definitely enter yours.

2. The Oldest Trick In The Book: Be Confident

There’s no denying it – women love confident men – plain and simple.

They want a man who can walk into a room and not get intimidated by anyone. They want a man who can stand up for himself and for others, and someone who believes in their own abilities – no matter what the circumstance or place.

If you find yourself getting rejected by women in your first meeting, you might be doing something wrong with your approach or with your body language.  Insecure men have forward shoulder posture, which is a subconscious way of self-protection. Confident men, on the other hand, stand with their chest wide open – telling the world they’re not afraid of anything – even being vulnerable and open to heartbreak.  To become the type of guy women obsess over,  a program like the Girlfriend Activation System can be a huge help.  You can read more about it over at haveyouseenhim.com.

So when you finally meet the woman you imagined, and your knees are shaking because you’ve actually found her in the flesh, stay calm. Even if you’re melting like ice inside, keep it cool and pretend to be confident.  Imagine a hand is pulling your center breast bone from behind – this will pull your shoulders back, opening up your chest so you can stand like a man with utmost confidence in whatever it is you do.

So now you know what it takes to get that woman, don’t just sit there! Put that pen down and get out there!

You won’t get the woman of your dreams by sulking in front of your computer.  First, you need to know who it is you’re looking for, and the next step, you must meet her.

So get your confident face on and go get the woman of your dreams!