Are you ”painfully” shy?

Would you rather shoot yourself in the foot than return the gaze of a guy you fancy?

If your answer is yes to the above questions, this article is for you.

Shyness is a very common phenomenon. It can however get in the way of your dating life especially when it is extreme. You shouldn’t however despair because there are many ways to get the attention of any man even when you are completely introverted.

No man including your Ex is beyond reach when you consider using the tips discussed below. One of the most important things to consider involves learning how to deal with your fears, anxiety and insecurities quietly without killing attraction by appearing desperate, lost, antisocial etc.

Below are 3 important tips to consider if you are desperately shy but you still want to get his attention.

1. Want him but don’t need him

There is a very big difference between wanting and needing.

Women who want men are in more control than those who need them since they can do well for themselves. If you are a desperately shy woman, you need to drill this fact deeper into your head.

Forget about the notion that women need men for them to be complete since such notions are false in today’s world.  You should be alive to the fact that there is nothing wrong with being alone. Many women have stayed single and have done perfectly well for themselves. Therefore, there is no reason to need a man desperately.

When you understand this fact, you will have more control over your life which is very attractive in the eyes of most men. You shouldn’t worry too much about your shyness because it can easily be overshadowed by your independence.

2. Go where the men are

This is another important tip to consider if you are desperately shy and you still want to get a man’s attention.

One of the best ways of overcoming your fears is to face them. It is therefore better for you to deal with your shyness by confronting it as opposed to confining yourself.

If he broke your heart, it’s time to get out there again. Don’t let your shyness get into your way.  In fact, he is more likely to have renewed interest in you when he sees you enjoying yourself.

Social places/events i.e. music festivals, boat shows, outdoor movie screenings, plays, comedy clubs etc. are great places for meeting men. Such places are perfect for shy women since they take most of the focus away from them.

3. Ask for help (AKA play the part of the damsel in distress)

It is also important to note that men can’t say no to women when it comes to lending a helping hand. It doesn’t matter how old or young you are or even if you are married or single.

Guys are programmed to help women in need of some assistance especially when it involves a manly task i.e. opening a tight jar, lifting heavy objects, changing a flat tire etc. This tip is very easy to use even if you are desperately shy because you don’t need pick up lines, ice breakers, or creative conversation starters.  You simply ask for help.

Your Ex will find it hard to say no when you ask for help. A stranger you fancy will also fall for the trick.  You can then initiate additional conversation and keep things rolling.

The above tips will definitely do wonders in your life especially if you are desperately shy and you want to get his attention. You don’t have to sit back and feel sorry for yourself anymore.

It is possible to use the above information and change things for the better. Whether it’s rekindling a broken relationship or starting fresh, the above tips have been tested and proven to work perfectly, even for painfully shy women.