A very handsome man recently asked me why only a few women can afford to have an amazing love life and a successful career at the same time. And it all comes down to the ordinary versus the extraordinary woman.

Here are 11 ways extraordinary women are able to stand out from the crowd:

1.) Extraordinary women focus on improving themselves daily.

2.) Ordinary women are usually concerned with what men think about them whereas extraordinary women focus on what they think about a man.

3.) Extraordinary women do not listen to contradicting pieces of advice. They get the help they need from one trusted source and tune out the others.

4.) An extraordinary woman dedicates months and years to mastering various aspects of her life.

5.) Extraordinary women do not settle for good men. They only go for extraordinary men.

6.) Extraordinary women don’t fear asking men what they want. They use a direct approach to communication.

7.) An extraordinary woman invests in herself first. They don’t go around asking men to do it for them.

8.) Extraordinary women address their own needs first. They don’t wait for a man to come and sort them out.

9.) An extraordinary woman will go to uncommon places to meet an exceptional man. She can’t afford to go just anywhere.

10.) An extraordinary woman will let her unique personality attract the right man. She doesn’t use immature tricks and tactics to get the attention of a man.

11.) Extraordinary women have no qualms about admitting they want a financially free man. They are always confident in their convictions.

Don’t let anyone tell you how or what you should think. It’s very important that you surround yourself with men and women who have different views that will help you to be a better person.

Consider the following facts:

-If you ask a girlfriend who is in the 99% category how to become part of the 1% group, you will definitely get the wrong advice.

-If you seek advice from a woman who seems happily married but is secretly miserable, you will be ruining yourself.

-If you ask a woman who has trouble being around upscale men how to attract upscale men, you will obviously get the wrong advice.  In fact, a huge number of women will intentionally give you the wrong information on how to attract upscale men. It’s very important that you ignore these type of women.

If you want to attract the right person, you have to get serious about your desires. Try to surround yourself with supportive people who are willing, ready, and able to get you there. They should also provide you with crucial advice whenever you need it.

You should never forget that every woman was created with something extraordinary inside them. If she is brave enough, she can unleash these unique traits.

It may take a little time, but most women eventually get to this point. If they surround themselves with the right kind of people, they can get there much faster.